Most of us are more than capable of bringing about changes in our lives .....the only thing that keep us from doing so is lack of patience, it's true that most us need support and encouragement from friends and family but the truth is when we want to make dramatic change to our life , its family and close friends that discourage us from making such dramatic change, they don't do it maliciously but to protect us from disappointment.
If non of your friends or family member even in previous generations have done what you want to do then they may tell you it's impossible and have never been done before, but just because it has never been done before doesn’t mean it can’t be done.
What is important is for you to decide you will do it anyway...if you have the needed persistence to keep going when everyone around you say it can't be done, you will do it.
Not many people have natural born persistence, it has to be built and exercised ,it means failing then getting up and trying it again over and over again. Without worrying about what people think, most people stop because they care too much about what other people think about them. Also most people give up too fast, especially when they don't have people around them to encourage them, the key is to be your own encourager, and learn to trust yourself, we often tell our children they can achieve anything they want in life but do we believe that to be true for us too?. When you get off track make sure you get back on track as soon as possible, don't beat yourself up, be kind with yourself, review the situation, what could you have done better then continue making your dream into reality. Most people live as if we have time to procrastinate and live lives that other people have influenced them to live eg parents ,but the truth is we haven't got time to waste ,we have new experiences to have, new skills to learn, new places to visit, new lifestyles to be had, new people to meet and most importantly new dreams to be dreamt. The key is to switch to a more abundant mind-set and you will be surprised what you will be able to come up with. You are creative . You are more than able to change your current situation. And you don't need others to approve you....have your own back, know that you've got this no matter what!!
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